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Welcome to the club created just for you and where you are right now in your life.

Divorce Girlfriends is the group of women you never thought you'd need so much–for support, for complete understanding, for wise advice and also just for fun. We've been waiting for you to grab your clutch purse full of stories and join in the conversation and cheers to fresh starts with new friends.

Every member of Divorce Girlfriends is getting divorced or is divorced, and while we are all dynamic, diverse women with our own anecdotes and adventures, we share the experience of loving and letting go, breaking down and being fierce, becoming our own Wonder Woman and lots and lots of legal paperwork.

Divorce Girlfriends includes just enough structure and guidance so you can show up, let down and enjoy your time off.  It is led by Jessica Ashley, who is a certified coach and with more than a decade of personal and professional experience, is also your best girlfriend in divorce.


*Not in Chicago? Ask us about becoming a Virtual Divorce Girlfriend.



Monthly meet-ups for bubbly (wine or water, your call), girlfriend gathering and time to mingle with your certified divorce coach Jessica Ashley and guest experts who are on your side.

Divorce Girlfriends newsletter with exclusive content, tips and wisdom from your certified divorce coach, other women who've been there, as well as stylists, attorneys and mediators, dating doyens, parenting and healthy living pros. 

Creative email course designed just for moms in transition, you'll build a  journal full of thought exercises, doodles, lists and other responses to fun, inspirational and provocative questions at your own pace over one month.

VIP access to private coaching offers and discounts on courses.

Access to the secret Facebook group, where there will be lively daily conversation, calls for advice, tips on thriving beyond divorce and introductions to people you need in your circle. You will also get lots of opportunity to ask questions in a supportive environment to your Best Girlfriend in Divorce, certified coach Jessica Ashley.

AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, you will have the girlfriends you've hoped for all these months, who understand it all and welcome you no matter what happened today, last week or last year. Walk in alone, leave with your ladies. WE ARE YOUR TRIBE. 



  • are divorced, are getting divorced or are contemplating divorce
  • identify as a woman
  • really need some fun time with your ladies, away from the responsibilities of work, kids and relationships, and the complexities of divorce
  • are ready to expand your circle of girlfriends who get who you are and where you are in your life right now
  • are open to new ideas and want to be your most amazing self, no matter how much things are changing
  • can get to Chicago for monthly meet-ups * Not in Chicago? No worries. We will be launching in other cities soon. Contact Jessica Ashley to join virtual Divorce Girlfriends now



As a founding Divorce Girlfriend, your investment covers:

  • Monthly meet-ups with other Divorce Girlfriends
  • Divorce Girlfriends newsletter with exclusive content
  • Creative email course (valued at $29, yours for free)
  • VIP access to private coaching offers and discounts
  • Access to our secret Facebook group
  • Divorce Girlfriends connections, friendships, support and private coaching moments with Jessica Ashley

$499 in one payment for a full year of Divorce Girlfriending!

or choose 

$49 per month in 12 automatic payments to enroll in one whole year with your ladies!